Commitments. I dont know why these days it could be such a horror. Especially for men. Or I'd rather say boys. Indeed, they want something romantic, affection, or other lovely things that relationship offered. Yet, for something bounded? The would reject it. It would be a BIG NO. Why is that so? Are they afraid of losing freedom? Oh, it doesnt make any sense. They couldn't generalize all the girls as the same. Though, I might be included to that one. Ha-ha.


In other words, they are interested in loving, caring, or something but not in making a relationship. They often say, "What is so wrong about a guy and girl who only getting into friendship?" Indeed, it is so wrong. Girls are sensitive (if I'm not mistaken), not every girl in the world would make your thinking as okay. Girls are taking relationship as something to hold and rely on. Relationship for girls is kinda conviction that would make them sure everything is okay. Let say they are childish if they are taking labeling of relationship as something precious. Boys will never know that such 'unimportant' thing will cast out any insecurity they feel.

Honestly, it happens to me. I am in an unguessed relationship with one of my classmate. Everything has been so unclear since the first time he knew what I'm feeling. He only said "Thank you." Pffffttt, What do I expect then? :/ Then, we continued with ... well I dont know how to describe it. It seems like he wanted me to guess all of 'this'. We were hanging out sometimes, texting each other, but then what? It was nothing. When it came to a point that I have to make this clear, he just said, "What is the difference between having a relationship and just being friends? We still can have fun like this, right?" OMG, then I concluded that, When happiness is the one that matter, relationship is nothing :|

Maybe from boys' point of view, I found the truth. Even it is a little bit shocking, I agree with them. What is the meaning of relationship then if both of you know that you are meant to have something? Relationship is made just to let others know, it is not important. It could be so pathetic when everybody knows that you are in relationship, yet the truth is that you are never happy at all. Fake relationship. The only thing that matter here is happiness. People may have their own perception to have it. But this is world. So please, be realistic. Dont be such a naive that only look at the narrow point of view.

Even if its is guessed or unguessed, you are the only one that know how to make yourself happier. Cheer up girls ;;)