It's The Matter of Getting By

October 25, 2013


Some of us often hear about this thing: "Life is hard. Get used to it." It may seem cruel at first, but then you'll realize that it is so much true.
Every time we face and experience bad and unpleasant things in our life, I won't deny that they would be so much painful and hard to deal with. It hurts us so much, seems like taking the whole part of our life, our happiness. Then, you might end up with a big grief whenever you couldn't stand it.
Yet, as the time passes by, slow but sure those bad things will be kept merely as pasts in your life. Time makes you deal with it slowly, another new experience represses it and helps you forget. At last, you are completely learn how to life better as you heal your old pain.
Everything is about how you get used to it. In this case, time has very important place in doing it so. Time is the most influencing part in your life, to help you cope with pain and keep moving on with you life.



Basically, that's because humans are actually creatures of behavior. It's just the matter of time and slowly they are going to get used to it. It's just the matter of trying.
Therefore, whenever you feel like dying to face a hard reality in front of you, just remember that those hard times ahead will be vanished sooner or later. Just don’t take it for granted. You will heal and get better for sure. Do not worry about it. It's not the end of your life before God says so. Keep moving on and live with it.
Life is not real, it's just a temporary condition before you're taking a step to your real life. It doesn’t mean that for the rest of your life you're going to take it as nothing meaningful. You have to remember that at the end, it teaches you something.
The best way to live it, in my opinion, is that live it with half eye opened. 


It means that part of you will take it as reality, but the rest will take it simply as something unreal. In my side, that thing helps me a lot.
It's better to half believe and go on with your life.

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