How do you cope with loss in your life?
March 11, 2014The hardest thing human could bear in life is their loss. It's freaking them out or even making their life seems like a hell when they no longer posses their belongings, the one they really love; something that really breaks their heart. But, human sometimes could not understand how this loss might teach them. By losing every single valuable thing in their life, somehow it teaches, trains and makes them get used to it for at the end they have to face the most frightening and horrible loss which is losing their life.
Yesterday, I lost my
cellphone. I was really sure that I've left it in my bag. First, I thought that
since it was out of battery, maybe it's better to leave it at room. The thing
that really confuses me till now is that, how that thing is just gone right
away without any logical reason. I've been re-thinking on and on regarding the
possibility of its lost. But, still I can't figure it out. Search it out? Yes,
absolutely. I've done that like many many times, even I looked for it in places
that are beyond impossible. It was really freaking me out, making my mind feels
like a mess. Really, it upset me. I can say that it was one of my valuable
thing, the price is good anyway but it's not the price or value of the cellphone that bother
me. The contacts, photos, and all the data in that phone are valuable for me instead.
How could I reach my family, friends, people at work if I lost it?
But then, my boy's
father told me that it's best to just let it go. There will always be a price
in our life that has to be paid, no matter how the way is. Maybe by losing my valuable things, it is the way to pay my "taxes"; something that
I owe, or I haven't paid. Hearing that words in my position would not cheer me
up, but somehow I found that words really inspiring. It relieved me for a
second and then that loss might be a little lesson for me.
I try to throw all
the negative thoughts in my mind for it's just screwing my mind and wasting my time. Maybe
if Lio's father were right, I should've let that thing go, genuinely. I don’t
need to worry for if it's really mine and it belongs to me, no matter how it will
back to me.
Every thing in life
teaches a lesson, it is just our task to find it out.
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