Social creatures, we are made to be;

need one another,

need each other.

We could not live alone,

so God created you company.

Just like He created Eve for Adam.

We need them in time of need,

through sorrow and happiness,

people who we'd like to share our emotion with.

We call them, FRIENDS.

But then, have you ever asked yourself in the first place with a question:

Why would I befriend with them?

Or maybe:

What benefit could I get if they come into my life?

How can they be a contribution to me?

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and hundreds questions that centered to your interest (only).

Being selfish is human.

It makes us human.

"The world outside is looked at only from the standpoint of what he can get out of it; he lacks interest in the needs of others, and respect for their dignity and integrity. He can see nothing but himself; he judges everyone and everything from its usefulness; he is basically unable to love." - Dr. Joji Valli, PhD

Yea, that is abso-goddamn-lutely true.

Somehow, to some extent, we can see nothing but ourselves as the only thing that really matters.

We need friends in our life, companion that we choose.

To make friends you should have mutual feeling, it's both you and them that choose one another.

Friends could come from something you have in common, whether it's a hobby, mindset, personality, an etc.

Someone has said, “A friend is a person who is willing to take me the way I am.” Accepting this as one definition of the word, may I quickly suggest that we are something less than a real friend if we leave a person the same way we find him. - Marvin J. Ashton

Well, I think it would be a huge misunderstanding if you take “A friend is a person who is willing to take me the way I am.” for granted.

To me friend is something that will lead you to be a better person anything that result in self-improvement, better attitudes, self-reliance, comfort, consolation, self-respect, and better welfare.

Someone that could make us be dependent and independent all at once.

Hurtful to speak, that not all of them could be real.

Once again, because we are the same selfish human being.

Soul that seeks self-comfort that only see everything from our point of view.

Before we're going to far, just ask yourself, if they are not real, are you the one who is real instead?

What you do not want done to yourself, DO NOT DO TO OTHERS - Confucius

It takes courage to be a real friend. 

It is dangerous enough to go through all circumstances together, ordinary soul cannot do that.

No wonder there would come fear in friendship. 

If you say real friends don't exist,
don't find one,
be that one.

Do you dare enough to be my real friends, then?

Because I would do all that roller-coaster journey for you.

Trust me,

I do.